She's well enough to decide to have a kid and give birth, it even seems she can take care of herself and her kid, so probably will he/she be able in the future. I don't see the problem, seems like it's entirely her decision and her kid to blame her when the time comes. A better question is why you think you, or society, get to impose what standards of living other people should gave, like, a lot of Bernds are pretty unhappy or downright depressed, should they gassed cause they are suffering? Or why it even worries you that much, could you be thinking of their suffering to avoid thinking of your own?